{"id":952,"date":"2019-11-18T21:51:24","date_gmt":"2019-11-18T20:51:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/plurafutura.dk\/publishing\/?page_id=952"},"modified":"2019-11-18T21:51:24","modified_gmt":"2019-11-18T20:51:24","slug":"hvorfor-bliver-vores-boern-smaa-tyranner","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"http:\/\/plurafutura.dk\/publishing\/hvorfor-bliver-vores-boern-smaa-tyranner\/","title":{"rendered":"Hvorfor bliver vores b\u00f8rn sm\u00e5 tyranner?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[vc_row full_width=&#8221;stretch_row&#8221; equal_height=&#8221;yes&#8221; content_placement=&#8221;middle&#8221; type=&#8221;vc_default&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1568564135498{padding-top: 70px !important;padding-bottom: 50px !important;background: rgba(255,83,60,0.71) url(http:\/\/plurafutura.dk\/publishing\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/reading-frontbanner.jpg?id=843) !important;background-position: center !important;background-repeat: no-repeat !important;background-size: cover !important;*background-color: rgb(255,83,60) !important;}&#8221; el_id=&#8221;introduction&#8221;][vc_column width=&#8221;2\/3&#8243; offset=&#8221;vc_col-lg-offset-2 vc_col-lg-8 vc_col-md-offset-1 vc_col-md-10&#8243;][vc_row_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;][vc_custom_heading text=&#8221;&#8221; font_container=&#8221;tag:h2|text_align:left|color:%23ff533c&#8221; google_fonts=&#8221;font_family:Open%20Sans%3A300%2C300italic%2Cregular%2Citalic%2C600%2C600italic%2C700%2C700italic%2C800%2C800italic|font_style:600%20bold%20regular%3A600%3Anormal&#8221;][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1574110155378{margin-top: 50px !important;margin-bottom: 50px !important;}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h1 style=\"text-align: center; margin-bottom: 10px;\">Hvorfor bliver vores b\u00f8rn sm\u00e5 tyranner?<\/h1>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>Forfatter: Michael Winterhoff<\/em><\/p>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][vc_row_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;][vc_single_image image=&#8221;892&#8243; img_size=&#8221;full&#8221;][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;][vc_custom_heading text=&#8221;Den forsvundne barndom. Hvad sker der, n\u00e5r b\u00f8rn f\u00e5r ansvaret for at skabe sig selv?&#8221; use_theme_fonts=&#8221;yes&#8221;][vc_column_text]M\u00e5 et barn sl\u00e5 sine for\u00e6ldre? Skal barnet have sin vilje, hver gang det f\u00e5r et hysterisk anfald? Hvorfor kan mange b\u00f8rn ikke sidde stille i mere end 10 minutter ad gangen? Kan b\u00f8rnene ikke h\u00f8re, eller gider de bare ikke h\u00f8re efter?<\/p>\n<p>Den tyske b\u00f8rnepsykiater Michael Winterhoff besvarer disse og mange andre sp\u00f8rgsm\u00e5l i sin bog om de sm\u00e5 tyranner. Han p\u00e5peger, at hvor der tidligere var 3-4 problemb\u00f8rn i en normal skoleklasse, taler man i dag om klasser, hvor det forholder sig n\u00e6rmest omvendt, med en meget lille gruppe b\u00f8rn uden problemer. Han mener, at denne udvikling til dels skyldes, at b\u00f8rn behandles som sm\u00e5 voksne, hvor de inddrages i beslutninger, de mange gange ikke er modne til at tage stilling til. Han mener, at b\u00f8rnene skal have deres barndom tilbage, og at de mere har brug for st\u00f8tte og vejledning end medbestemmelse og valgmuligheder.<\/p>\n<p>If\u00f8lge Michael Winterhoff misforst\u00e5r mange voksne deres rolle over for barnet og dermed hindrer en sund udvikling af psyken. Han ser ofte en omvendt magtfordeling, hvor det er barnet, der styrer den voksne. Det fastholder barnet i en tidlig narcissistisk fase, hvor det forventer at f\u00e5 alle sine \u00f8nsker opfyldt. Hvis barnet bliver fastholdt i denne fase, vil barnet have sv\u00e6rt ved at acceptere et nej og ofte reagere voldsomt. Og s\u00e5 er det vi f\u00e5r tyrannerne.<\/p>\n<p>Bogen er skrevet i et let forst\u00e5eligt sprog med talrige hverdagseksempler. Den henvender sig til et bredt publikum af for\u00e6ldre, l\u00e6rere og p\u00e6dagoger samt alle andre der interesserer sig for b\u00f8rnenes og dermed samfundets udvikling. Med 500.000 solgte eksemplarer er den en bestseller i Tyskland og er blevet oversat til 16 sprog.[\/vc_column_text][vc_btn title=&#8221;K\u00f8b bogen her&#8221; style=&#8221;custom&#8221; custom_background=&#8221;#ff6c5a&#8221; custom_text=&#8221;#ffffff&#8221; align=&#8221;center&#8221; link=&#8221;url:https%3A%2F%2Fwww.saxo.com%2Fdk%2Fhvorfor-bliver-vores-boern-smaa-tyranner_michael-winterhoff_indbundet_9788792644077|title:saxo.com|target:%20_blank|&#8221;][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][vc_row_inner equal_height=&#8221;yes&#8221; content_placement=&#8221;middle&#8221; gap=&#8221;35&#8243; disable_element=&#8221;yes&#8221;][vc_column_inner el_class=&#8221;reviewBox&#8221; width=&#8221;1\/4&#8243; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1573217262034{padding-top: 50px !important;padding-bottom: 50px !important;background-color: #f4f5f6 !important;}&#8221;][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n<h6><em>\u201dDybt kompetente psykologer og forskere har bidraget til et interessant og unikt indblik i det ellers ufremkommelige vildnis, som personlighedspsykologien er. M\u00e6rkelige menneske er en velskrevet og oplysende introduktion til et ufatteligt interessant og ekstremt kompetent emne.\u201d<\/em><\/h6>\n<p>Videnskab.dk, Carsten Fogh Nielsen[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner el_class=&#8221;reviewBox&#8221; width=&#8221;1\/4&#8243; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1573217269143{padding-top: 50px !important;padding-bottom: 50px !important;background-color: #f4f5f6 !important;}&#8221;][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n<h6><em>\u201dM\u00e6rkelige menneske er en underholdende og velformidlet dansk introduktion til personlighedspsykologi.\u201d<\/em><\/h6>\n<p>Politiken, Svend Brinkmann[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner el_class=&#8221;reviewBox&#8221; width=&#8221;1\/4&#8243; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1573217276487{padding-top: 50px !important;padding-bottom: 50px !important;background-color: #f4f5f6 !important;}&#8221;][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n<h6><em>\u201dFagligt velfunderet, underholdende og letl\u00e6st bog om moderne og klassisk personlighedspsykologi.\u201d<\/em><\/h6>\n<p>Dansk Biblioteks Center, lekt\u00f8rudtalelse, Grethe Lorentzen[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner el_class=&#8221;reviewBox&#8221; width=&#8221;1\/4&#8243; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1573217284073{padding-top: 50px !important;padding-bottom: 50px !important;background-color: #f4f5f6 !important;}&#8221;][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n<h6><em>\u201dDet er en uhyre relevant bog.\u201d<\/em><\/h6>\n<p>Weekendavisen, Tine Eiby[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row full_width=&#8221;stretch_row_content_no_spaces&#8221; equal_height=&#8221;yes&#8221; disable_element=&#8221;yes&#8221; bg_type=&#8221;bg_color&#8221; bg_override=&#8221;ex-full&#8221; type=&#8221;vc_default&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1574107121465{background-color: #f7f7f7 !important;background-position: center !important;background-repeat: no-repeat !important;background-size: cover !important;}&#8221; bg_color_value=&#8221;#f7f7f7&#8243; el_id=&#8221;contact-section&#8221;][vc_column css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1544273035889{padding-top: 70px !important;padding-right: 50px !important;padding-bottom: 40px !important;padding-left: 50px !important;background-color: #f7f7f7 !important;}&#8221; offset=&#8221;vc_col-lg-offset-3 vc_col-lg-6 vc_col-md-offset-3 vc_col-md-6 vc_col-sm-offset-0 vc_col-xs-12&#8243;][vc_row_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;5\/6&#8243; offset=&#8221;vc_col-lg-offset-2 vc_col-lg-8 vc_col-md-offset-1 vc_col-md-10 vc_col-sm-offset-1&#8243; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1538551866197{padding-right: 20px !important;padding-left: 20px !important;}&#8221;]<script type=\"text\/javascript\">var gform;gform||(document.addEventListener(\"gform_main_scripts_loaded\",function(){gform.scriptsLoaded=!0}),window.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){gform.domLoaded=!0}),gform={domLoaded:!1,scriptsLoaded:!1,initializeOnLoaded:function(o){gform.domLoaded&&gform.scriptsLoaded?o():!gform.domLoaded&&gform.scriptsLoaded?window.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",o):document.addEventListener(\"gform_main_scripts_loaded\",o)},hooks:{action:{},filter:{}},addAction:function(o,n,r,t){gform.addHook(\"action\",o,n,r,t)},addFilter:function(o,n,r,t){gform.addHook(\"filter\",o,n,r,t)},doAction:function(o){gform.doHook(\"action\",o,arguments)},applyFilters:function(o){return gform.doHook(\"filter\",o,arguments)},removeAction:function(o,n){gform.removeHook(\"action\",o,n)},removeFilter:function(o,n,r){gform.removeHook(\"filter\",o,n,r)},addHook:function(o,n,r,t,i){null==gform.hooks[o][n]&&(gform.hooks[o][n]=[]);var e=gform.hooks[o][n];null==i&&(i=n+\"_\"+e.length),gform.hooks[o][n].push({tag:i,callable:r,priority:t=null==t?10:t})},doHook:function(n,o,r){var t;if(r=Array.prototype.slice.call(r,1),null!=gform.hooks[n][o]&&((o=gform.hooks[n][o]).sort(function(o,n){return o.priority-n.priority}),o.forEach(function(o){\"function\"!=typeof(t=o.callable)&&(t=window[t]),\"action\"==n?t.apply(null,r):r[0]=t.apply(null,r)})),\"filter\"==n)return r[0]},removeHook:function(o,n,t,i){var r;null!=gform.hooks[o][n]&&(r=(r=gform.hooks[o][n]).filter(function(o,n,r){return!!(null!=i&&i!=o.tag||null!=t&&t!=o.priority)}),gform.hooks[o][n]=r)}});<\/script>\n                <div class='gf_browser_gecko gform_wrapper gform_legacy_markup_wrapper' id='gform_wrapper_1' ><div id='gf_1' class='gform_anchor' tabindex='-1'><\/div><form method='post' enctype='multipart\/form-data' target='gform_ajax_frame_1' id='gform_1'  action='\/publishing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/952#gf_1' >\n                        <div class='gform_body gform-body'><ul id='gform_fields_1' class='gform_fields top_label form_sublabel_below description_below'><li id=\"field_1_1\"  class=\"gfield field_sublabel_below field_description_below hidden_label gfield_visibility_visible\"  data-js-reload=\"field_1_1\"><label class='gfield_label' for='input_1_1' >Dit navn<\/label><div class='ginput_container ginput_container_text'><input name='input_1' id='input_1_1' type='text' value='' class='medium'    placeholder='Dit navn'  aria-invalid=\"false\"   \/> <\/div><\/li><li id=\"field_1_2\"  class=\"gfield gfield_contains_required field_sublabel_below field_description_below hidden_label gfield_visibility_visible\"  data-js-reload=\"field_1_2\"><label class='gfield_label' for='input_1_2' >E-mail<span class=\"gfield_required\"><span class=\"gfield_required gfield_required_asterisk\">*<\/span><\/span><\/label><div class='ginput_container ginput_container_email'>\n                            <input name='input_2' id='input_1_2' type='text' value='' class='medium'   placeholder='Din E-mail' aria-required=\"true\" aria-invalid=\"false\"  \/>\n                        <\/div><\/li><li id=\"field_1_3\"  class=\"gfield field_sublabel_below field_description_below hidden_label gfield_visibility_visible\"  data-js-reload=\"field_1_3\"><label class='gfield_label' for='input_1_3' >Skriv en uddybende besked herunder<\/label><div class='ginput_container ginput_container_textarea'><textarea name='input_3' id='input_1_3' class='textarea medium'    placeholder='Skriv en uddybende besked her...'  aria-invalid=\"false\"   rows='10' cols='50'><\/textarea><\/div><\/li><\/ul><\/div>\n        <div class='gform_footer top_label'> <input type='submit' id='gform_submit_button_1' class='gform_button button' value='Send'  onclick='if(window[\"gf_submitting_1\"]){return false;}  window[\"gf_submitting_1\"]=true;  ' onkeypress='if( event.keyCode == 13 ){ if(window[\"gf_submitting_1\"]){return false;} window[\"gf_submitting_1\"]=true;  jQuery(\"#gform_1\").trigger(\"submit\",[true]); }' \/> <input type='hidden' name='gform_ajax' value='form_id=1&amp;title=&amp;description=&amp;tabindex=0' \/>\n            <input type='hidden' class='gform_hidden' name='is_submit_1' value='1' \/>\n            <input type='hidden' class='gform_hidden' name='gform_submit' value='1' \/>\n            \n            <input type='hidden' class='gform_hidden' name='gform_unique_id' value='' \/>\n            <input type='hidden' class='gform_hidden' name='state_1' value='WyJbXSIsIjI4NmVmNDRiODJlNzRmNzg4ZjY3MWEwY2UzNWQxM2Y5Il0=' \/>\n            <input type='hidden' class='gform_hidden' name='gform_target_page_number_1' id='gform_target_page_number_1' value='0' \/>\n            <input type='hidden' class='gform_hidden' name='gform_source_page_number_1' id='gform_source_page_number_1' value='1' \/>\n            <input type='hidden' name='gform_field_values' value='' \/>\n            \n        <\/div>\n                        <\/form>\n                        <\/div>\n                <iframe style='display:none;width:0px;height:0px;' src='about:blank' name='gform_ajax_frame_1' id='gform_ajax_frame_1' title='Denne iframe indeholder logikken, der er kr\u00e6vet for at h\u00e5ndtere Gravity Formularer, der bruger Ajax.'><\/iframe>\n                <script type=\"text\/javascript\">\ngform.initializeOnLoaded( function() {gformInitSpinner( 1, 'http:\/\/plurafutura.dk\/publishing\/wp-content\/plugins\/gravityforms\/images\/spinner.svg' );jQuery('#gform_ajax_frame_1').on('load',function(){var contents = jQuery(this).contents().find('*').html();var is_postback = contents.indexOf('GF_AJAX_POSTBACK') >= 0;if(!is_postback){return;}var form_content = jQuery(this).contents().find('#gform_wrapper_1');var is_confirmation = jQuery(this).contents().find('#gform_confirmation_wrapper_1').length > 0;var is_redirect = contents.indexOf('gformRedirect(){') >= 0;var is_form = form_content.length > 0 && ! is_redirect && ! is_confirmation;var mt = parseInt(jQuery('html').css('margin-top'), 10) + parseInt(jQuery('body').css('margin-top'), 10) + 100;if(is_form){jQuery('#gform_wrapper_1').html(form_content.html());if(form_content.hasClass('gform_validation_error')){jQuery('#gform_wrapper_1').addClass('gform_validation_error');} else {jQuery('#gform_wrapper_1').removeClass('gform_validation_error');}setTimeout( function() { \/* delay the scroll by 50 milliseconds to fix a bug in chrome *\/ jQuery(document).scrollTop(jQuery('#gform_wrapper_1').offset().top - mt); }, 50 );if(window['gformInitDatepicker']) {gformInitDatepicker();}if(window['gformInitPriceFields']) {gformInitPriceFields();}var current_page = jQuery('#gform_source_page_number_1').val();gformInitSpinner( 1, 'http:\/\/plurafutura.dk\/publishing\/wp-content\/plugins\/gravityforms\/images\/spinner.svg' );jQuery(document).trigger('gform_page_loaded', [1, current_page]);window['gf_submitting_1'] = false;}else if(!is_redirect){var confirmation_content = jQuery(this).contents().find('.GF_AJAX_POSTBACK').html();if(!confirmation_content){confirmation_content = contents;}setTimeout(function(){jQuery('#gform_wrapper_1').replaceWith(confirmation_content);jQuery(document).scrollTop(jQuery('#gf_1').offset().top - mt);jQuery(document).trigger('gform_confirmation_loaded', [1]);window['gf_submitting_1'] = false;wp.a11y.speak(jQuery('#gform_confirmation_message_1').text());}, 50);}else{jQuery('#gform_1').append(contents);if(window['gformRedirect']) {gformRedirect();}}jQuery(document).trigger('gform_post_render', [1, current_page]);} );} );\n<\/script>\n[\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][\/vc_column][\/vc_row]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[vc_row full_width=&#8221;stretch_row&#8221; equal_height=&#8221;yes&#8221; content_placement=&#8221;middle&#8221; type=&#8221;vc_default&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1568564135498{padding-top: 70px !important;padding-bottom: 50px !important;background: rgba(255,83,60,0.71) url(http:\/\/plurafutura.dk\/publishing\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/reading-frontbanner.jpg?id=843) !important;background-position: center !important;background-repeat: no-repeat !important;background-size: cover !important;*background-color: rgb(255,83,60)&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/plurafutura.dk\/publishing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/952"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/plurafutura.dk\/publishing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/plurafutura.dk\/publishing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/plurafutura.dk\/publishing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/plurafutura.dk\/publishing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=952"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/plurafutura.dk\/publishing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/952\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":953,"href":"http:\/\/plurafutura.dk\/publishing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/952\/revisions\/953"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/plurafutura.dk\/publishing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=952"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}